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The journey to the wedding day may be a winding one. I’m happy to share some tips and tricks along the way. I continually offer ways to strengthen your relationship, and provide additional resources & tools. Scroll on down, and click on a post that interests you. The comments are always open, and I would love to know what you think!

Gratituesday 5.1.18 - Hello Spring!
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Gratituesday 5.1.18 - Hello Spring!

Gosh, I love Spring! Flowers, sunshine and an amazing sense of possibility. And here in New York, we were OVERDUE. I sensed the unhappiness from my fellow New Yorkers. Now hopefully there will be at least more mindfulness and compassion as we all rush around together.

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Gratituesday 4.17.18 - No Time to Spare
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Gratituesday 4.17.18 - No Time to Spare

The past few days have been full of back to back appointments and commitments. So there's no time to spare and I have to be efficient with my time. I "just" enough time to write and post Weekly Lists. No time to mull over them as I sometimes do especially since I had to start again because I accidentally closed the Edit Post window in WordPress before saving the draft! Hello resilience!

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Gratituesday 4.3.18 - Time Flies
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Gratituesday 4.3.18 - Time Flies

I am not really sure where today went. In fact, I say this most days. Truth is time flies. Perhaps I need to have a list of tasks I did in a given day to remind me. But I guess that's what a crossed out to-do list is for. And while I have gotten things done, I don't know how helpful that list is.

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Gratituesday 3.27.18 - I'm Working!
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Gratituesday 3.27.18 - I'm Working!

I started the Artist's Way at the beginning of December and I'm currently on Week 10. Yes, I "should" already be done. Don't judge. This week is all about recognizing and eliminating toxic patterns. When I saw the section entitled, "Workaholism" I got nervous.

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Vendors I Love: CAREY MACARTHUR PHOTOGRAPHY
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Vendors I Love: CAREY MACARTHUR PHOTOGRAPHY

I was honored to work with Carey on an intimate elopement in December. She recommended me to the couple and for that I am forever grateful. As a collaborator she has a super easy demeanor. She focuses in on the emotions swirling around the couple and captures connection between with grace. She has an amazing eye and truly documents love with genuine care and excitement. Without further ado, I'd love to introduce you to CAREY MACARTHUR!

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Gratituesday 3.13.18 - Creating a To-do List
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Gratituesday 3.13.18 - Creating a To-do List

I created a to-do list in one of my many notebooks last Wednesday. It's now almost a week later and I was able to check off only 14 of the 23 items on the list. Yay me for getting things done, but how come I just cannot get EVERYTHING done? This is a new habit and it was a crazy busy week. Some of the items are also more complex or take time. However are these just excuses? Perhaps.

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Gratituesday 3.6.18 - Live Now!
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Gratituesday 3.6.18 - Live Now!

I went into writing my Weekly Lists full of positivity and excitement, but as I sit here typing I'm overcome with a bad case of the "I Don't Wannas." I had to push through them yesterday to practice yoga and apparently here I am again.

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Let's CELEBRATE with some Apple Cider Punch

Let's CELEBRATE with some Apple Cider Punch

Every Tuesday, I share a list of Gratitudes, Celebrations and Desires. As a wedding officiant, I am surrounded by Celebration. Yes, we certainly recognize big milestones with festivity, but how about the little ones? Finishing a task you've put off? Hitting a sales goal? Receiving some good news! Nothing says 'Celebration' better than a good cocktail! And winter is perfect for a little apple & ginger!

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Gratituesday 1.30.18 - Like it or Not!
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Gratituesday 1.30.18 - Like it or Not!

For those that read these Weekly Lists on the regular, it should come as no surprise that keeping my kitchen clean is a challenge. After the amazing mess made by the burst pipe and clog, the universe made it clear that I had to start cleaning my kitchen. Luckily the caulking of the backsplash eliminated the bugs. However, I now have a little furry friend who's made my kitchen his new home.

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Gratituesday 1.16.18 - Creating Rituals
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Gratituesday 1.16.18 - Creating Rituals

Last month, I did a bit of research on creating rituals. As someone who tends to procrastinate, I thought it would be a good idea to have a daily habit to jump start the day. I had a brief stint doing the Ayurvedic morning routine, but it was a little too much for me.

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Gratituesday 1.9.18 - Get Up & Go!
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Gratituesday 1.9.18 - Get Up & Go!

The weather this week around the country has been brutal. Super cold, snowy and windy. Luckily I primarily work from home so I was able to stay warm inside without too much trouble. My cat, Maxie is happy to use me as his personal heater and to be honest, it's nice to have him purring on my lap as I binge-watch 'The Crown' and 'The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel.'

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