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The journey to the wedding day may be a winding one. I’m happy to share some tips and tricks along the way. I continually offer ways to strengthen your relationship, and provide additional resources & tools. Scroll on down, and click on a post that interests you. The comments are always open, and I would love to know what you think!

Gratituesday 4.23.24 - From Slavery to Freedom
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Gratituesday 4.23.24 - From Slavery to Freedom

The story of Passover is one of secrets and springtime, celebration and of course slavery. Jews were enslaved by the Egyptians and were released from bondage to walk through the dessert to freedom. However there is so much strife in our world. I am processing it all, and trying to make my Passover experience personal for me.

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Gratituesday 4.2.24 - Rainy Day Palindrome
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Gratituesday 4.2.24 - Rainy Day Palindrome

So as I walked home in the rain today, I was listening to an episode of Radiolab where they announced that today is the first of quite a few palindrome days this month. It was a replay of an audio recording from Short Cuts on the BBC. It was a piece that plays the same forward and backward. It was about place and home and belonging.

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Gratituesday 2.20.24 - Anger Rising
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Gratituesday 2.20.24 - Anger Rising

Years ago when I still choreographing, there was a short dance I created for a musical. I told the dancers to feel this electric energy rising up their bodies and then take over into movement. Today that happened with anger. And just like the dance, it totally took over.

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Gratituesday 1.16.24 - Brrr, it’s Cold!
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Gratituesday 1.16.24 - Brrr, it’s Cold!

So here in NYC, we have not seen snow in a while. And many of us have been a little annoyed. But this morning, I needed to head out early and there was indeed snow on the ground. I mean this was the first snow fall that we’ve seen in 700 days. Yippee! However that was not my first thought. Rather when seeing the snow I was annoyed. Brrr, it’s cold!

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Gratituesday 12.19.23 - Community
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Gratituesday 12.19.23 - Community

For a long time my desires included a stronger personal and business circle. As an introvert, I will never have a large group of friends. However, I finally feel that there is community around me. The world continues to be a challenging place, but we have to find the joy and embrace the good.

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Gratituesday 11.14.23 - Conflict
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Gratituesday 11.14.23 - Conflict

With all of the armed conflict all around, it may be difficult to get out of bed. Or actually it may be too easy. But I do try to counter all of the negativity with some gratitude. I encourage you to do the same. Feel free to join me, or make some lists just for you.

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Gratituesday 10.31.23 - Hey Old Friend
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Gratituesday 10.31.23 - Hey Old Friend

One of my closest friends got married over the weekend. So, I after 11 years, I headed back to the west coast. It gave me a good opportunity to see some other old friends - all from my time in Atlanta. So while my friend circle is rather small, it was a great reminder to make time and connect. Ah, let’s keep the reflection going. Here are my weekly lists.

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Gratituesday 9.5.23 - Out of Focus
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Gratituesday 9.5.23 - Out of Focus

I’m not sure why, but I’ve been a little out of focus lately. I am a person who values productivity. However, I need to also value rest. So before I take a nap, let me do a little reflection and create my weekly lists. If you want to join me, the comment section is always open. Let’s go!

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Gratituesday 6.27.23 - Falling Apart
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Gratituesday 6.27.23 - Falling Apart

I’ve had thoughts lately about things falling apart. Sure, I may have a mild case of plantar fasciitis and my stomach has been bothering me and let’s not get into the hot flashes. But are things falling apart? No, not really.

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Gratituesday 5.9.23 - Pushing Through the Negativity
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Gratituesday 5.9.23 - Pushing Through the Negativity

It’s been a long few days, and I’m tired. I’ve been a little more negative than usual, so taking a moment to reflect on the positive has been a challenge. But I’m proud to say I’m pushing through the negativity. It did take a while, but I did find some positivity. Here are my weekly gratitudes, celebrations and desires.

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Gratituesday 3.28.23 - Welcome Home!
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Gratituesday 3.28.23 - Welcome Home!

So, I bought an apartment! Welcome home, you may say. However I purchased my co-op in the beginning of 2019 and after a lengthy renovation process, I moved in at the very end of that year. And now OVER two years later, or over FOUR years from purchase I finally got my Letter of Completion from the city yesterday. Welcome home, indeed!

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Gratituesday 2.28.23 - There’s Plenty of Time
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Gratituesday 2.28.23 - There’s Plenty of Time

I know that the phrase, “there aren’t enough hours in the day” is commonly used. However, I’m here to tell you that there is plenty of time! On a daily basis, we need to work smarter and not harder. And if we lift our heads up from our screens, we can get a lot done.

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Gratituesday 12.27.22 - Ending the Year Soft
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Gratituesday 12.27.22 - Ending the Year Soft

I cannot believe the year is almost over. I saw something on social media about rather than finishing the year HARD or with POWER that we should end the year SOFT. With relaxation and rest. With intention and ease. I’m not going to lie, that will be a challenge!

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