List of Virtual Services
2026
Friend/Family Officiant Support - Vow Writing
Premarital Counseling - Ritual & Meditation
Hey there, I’m Hope.
NYC wedding officiant and premarital counselor, working with couples since 2011.
I help couples build a marriage, not just plan a wedding day. Wherever you're planning from, I can be part of it — guiding you on your ceremony & vows, offering in-depth premarital conversations, and performing rituals that mark your amazing transition.
How I Work
Everything below can be done remotely, by video, which makes it easy to plug into your planning process from anywhere in the country. I work directly with the friend/family officiant, and you, the couple. I'm also happy to keep your planner in the know along the way!
Virtual Services
Friend & Family Officiant Consultations
For the loved one who's been asked to officiate. On Zoom, FaceTime or Google Meet, we work through ceremony structure, script writing, and delivery. This way the ceremony feels personal, polished, and calm, and your friend or family member feels ready.
Ceremony Creation
A custom-written ceremony script, built around your love story and vibe - including religion & culture - or not!
Vow Writing, Editing & Review
Support at whatever stage you need — from writing vows from scratch to a final polish before the big day.
Premarital Counseling
Discussion-based conversations — not assessments — on The Big Issues, including communication, finances, family relationships, and values.
The Marriage Roadmap
A high-level session to plan the next 5 years together. We look at your priorities and you receive a roadmap with a timeline, along with prompts to have specific conversations on your own.
Meditation, Yoga & Ritual
Grounding practices that mark the transition into marriage, including guided meditation, breath work, and The Threshold Ritual.
What Couples Say…
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"We connected Hope with our wedding officiant, the groom's best friend..."
She brought her years of experience to bear while still letting our collective visions shine." — Alyssa & Ryan
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"Hope has so much energy and zeal."
She walked us through how she creates a ceremony in so much detail that we pretty much immediately knew that we wanted to work with her... making the experience so personal that many people asked if she was a family friend." — Jackie & Andreas
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"Hope was incredibly thoughtful and flexible in her approach."
"We struggled finding an officiant because we wanted a neutral third-party that could provide a secular service while also incorporating some cultural aspects...” — Abe & Cristine
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"Hope is extremely attentive to detail, organized,
She kept us on track in a non-stressful way throughout the entire process." — Jen & Izzy
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"Hope helped us with both premarital counseling and our wedding ceremony...
“our conversations with her often went beyond just planning a ceremony." — Rehan & Megan
Virtual Rates
Friend & Family Officiant Consultations — $575 (2 sessions)
Ceremony Creation — $650
Vow Writing, Editing & Review — $75–$650, depending on scope
Premarital Counseling
$225 / session
5-session package: $1,025
7-session package: $1,400
The Marriage Roadmap — $295
Meditation, Yoga & Ritual
Private 1:1 Session — $175 (yoga/breathwork, guided meditation, The Threshold Ritual with the couple)
Private Small Group — $250 (bachelorette weekend, pre-wedding day reset, bridal bonding experience, grounding session to start the wedding day)
Ready to Begin?
Since 2011, I've helped couples across the country write vows that sound like them, build ceremonies that feel true, and have the conversations that make a marriage strong long after the wedding day.
Whatever you're looking for, I'd love to help you get there.