YOUR PERSONALIZED MARRIAGE ROADMAP

Know exactly where you’re going (and how to get there).

A one-hour session that helps engaged couples plan for their marriage.

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From Wedding Planning to Marriage Planning •

From Wedding Planning to Marriage Planning •

The Challenge

  • You're focused on the big day, not the big picture

  • Important conversations keep getting postponed

  • You're not sure what you should even be discussing

  • You want to feel prepared, but don't know where to start

  • Traditional premarital counseling feels like too big a commitment right now

The Solution

  • One focused hour dedicated to your marriage

  • A safe space to discuss what really matters

  • Expert guidance on the conversations you need to have

  • A customized roadmap with clear next steps

  • An accessible starting point that fits your timeline

I’m Hope Mirlis...

A premarital counselor based in New York City and founder of A More Perfect Union. Since 2011, I've been helping engaged couples prepare for the realities of marriage through honest conversation, proven tools, and personalized guidance. I created the Marriage Roadmap Session because I kept meeting couples who'd realized—too late—that they'd spent more time planning their wedding than their marriage. This session bridges that gap, giving you a bird's eye view of your future together and the foundation you need to build a thriving partnership. My approach is practical, and discussion-based. This isn't heavy therapy or deep counseling—it's intentional planning for the most important relationship of your life.

I can’t wait to work with you to build your roadmap!

WHAT’S INCLUDED IN YOUR ROADMAP SESSION:

  • Prior to Your Session

    You'll each complete a brief intake questionnaire separately. This helps me understand your unique situation and customize our time together

  • During Our Hour Together

    We'll discuss your vision for marriage, dive deep into your priority areas, and I'll provide practical tools you can use immediately. This isn't lecture-based—it's a guided conversation tailored to you.

  • Your Custom Roadmap

    Within 3-5 days, you'll receive your personalized Marriage Roadmap with your specific action steps, conversation starters, timeline, and resources. It's yours to reference for years to come.

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Every session is customized based on your priorities, but commonly includes the Big Issue topics that I use in premarital counseling. 

  • Financial Foundation

    Money management, debt, savings goals, account decisions, and how to talk about finances openly.

  • Communication & Conflict

    Building healthy patterns, navigating disagreements, and creating repair strategies that work for you.

  • Family Dynamics

    Setting boundaries, navigating extended family relationships, and creating new traditions together.

  • Future Planning

    Children, career goals, home ownership, major life transitions, and timeline alignment.

  • Home & Life Rhythms

    Household responsibilities, daily routines, and balancing togetherness with independence.

  • Your Unique Priorities

    Whatever matters most to you—we'll make sure your roadmap reflects your specific needs and goals.

HOW IT WORKS:

  • 1. Book Your Session

    Choose a time that works for both of you. Sessions are virtual, so you can join from anywhere.

  • 2. Complete Your Welcome Packet

    Each of you fills out a brief questionnaire separately. This helps me customize our time together.

  • 3. Meet for Your Session

    We spend one focused hour discussing your priorities, vision, and creating your plan together.

  • 4. Receive Your Roadmap

    Within 3-5 days, you'll get your personalized Marriage Roadmap with specific action steps and tools.

LET'S START BUILDING YOUR MARRIAGE ROADMAP

Want to go Deeper?

The Marriage Roadmap Session is a powerful starting point, but some couples want more comprehensive support. My full premarital counseling program takes a deeper dive into the conversations and skills that prepare you for marriage.

LEARN MORE ABOUT PREMARITAL COUNSELING

Ready to create your Marriage Roadmap?

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Ready to create your Marriage Roadmap? 〰️

Give your marriage the same intentional planning you're giving your wedding.

Special Introductory Offer

THROUGH VALENTINE’S DAY

$197 per couple

(regular price $297 after February 14th) 

Virtual sessions available nationwide
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