Hope Mirlis – NYC Wedding Officiant & Premarital Counselor
serving New York City, Long Island, northern New Jersey, the Hudson Valley and beyond!
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Where Professional Calm Meets Spiritual Meaning
Holistic Wedding Officiating + Premarital Counseling
Grounded. Connected. Intentional.
Since 2009, I’ve helped hundreds of couples create ceremonies that feel deeply personal — and relationships that feel deeply supported.
A Wedding Ceremony That Actually Feels Like You
If you’re a busy professional…
If you’re spiritually curious or deeply connected…
If you want a ceremony that’s meaningful, yet light-hearted…
You’re in the right place.
I specialize in guiding couples who care about more than just the wedding day — couples who want a mindful, intentional, fully personalized experience that honors their story, their values, and their future together.
Offerings
Officiating for Professional + Spiritual Couples
Personalized, thoughtful, heart-centered ceremonies created through a process that is organized, efficient, and emotionally grounded.
Premarital Counseling That Brings You Closer
A blend of practical tools + mindful conversation.
This work helps you strengthen your foundation before the big day — in a way that feels supportive, not clinical.
Mindful Wedding Experiences
Guided rituals, vow-writing help, meditation, yoga, and spiritual practices for couples who want a meaningful journey, not just a moment.
Whether you’re getting married surrounded by all your friends and family or just something intimate with a few, together we can create something memorable, meaningful and fun!
WEDDING CEREMONIES
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Premarital Counseling is not therapy. It’s a road map for the future. With your partner, let’s take time to talk through your expectations of the marriage in order to strengthen your relationship and plan for the future.
PREMARITAL COUNSELING
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Grab your partner, your bestie or your entire wedding party to breathe, move and find connection as you plan & celebrate. These sessions are great for the morning of your wedding or leading up to your Big Day.
WEDDING YOGA + MEDITATION
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Planning a wedding is exciting—but let’s be real, it can also be overwhelming. And what about planning for your marriage? That part matters too.
Introducing Ever After Academy, Hope’s new venture! We bring top wedding and relationship experts together in one place to help you navigate both. From photography to finances, prenups to planning, from zeal to zen.
Think of it as your one-stop confidence boost. Once you attend a panel discussion or a workshop, you will be ready for the journey ahead.
EVER AFTER ACADEMY
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Signature Services
The Sacred Ceremony Journey
For spiritual couples who want ritual, meaning, and intention woven into every part of the experience.
The Mindful Marriage Start
For busy professionals who want clarity, ease, and a ceremony that feels deeply personal.
The Ever After Union Experience
A combined officiating + premarital signature package that deepens your connection and prepares you for the next chapter.
Packages and services are available based on your unique needs. If you are looking for an officiant but no premarital counseling, I’m happy to accommodate. If you already have an officiant but want some yoga or meditation the morning of your big day, just say the word!
Why Couples Choose Me
A Calming and Grounded Presence
Want to make sure that your ceremony is created and performed with intention, warmth, and emotional clarity? I’ve got’chu!
A Unique Blend of Professional and Spiritual Expertise
I speak the language of busy careers and mindful living.
You get structure and soul.
Over a Decade of Experience (since 2009)
Hundreds of ceremonies.
Hundreds of couples supported.
A trusted guide in the NYC wedding community.
Sessions & Meetings Designed for Busy Schedules
Flexible. Efficient. Respectful of your time.
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“We can’t thank you enough. You helped make our wedding ceremony everything we had hoped for (and more)! Our family commented afterwards on the positive energy you brought to the ceremony; we noticed as well and it made the ceremony even more special for us.”
— Eric & Shawna – Central Park
“Hope’s yoga classes are creative, challenging and energizing. A thoughtful and intuitive teacher, her many talents and interests are reflected in her approach to yoga.”
— Kim – Oakland, CA
“What really stood out to me: No one walked up to me and said the typical “It was a beautiful ceremony”. Instead, people said more thoughtful things like:“That really was the most fun ceremony I’ve ever been to!”
— Kelly & Gordon – Greenpoint Loft, Brooklyn, NY
“I cannot imagine preparing for marriage without Hope’s insight and guidance. She helped me and my fiancee navigate some very important (and sometimes difficult) topics that we would never have thought of otherwise.”
— Chris – Atlanta, GA