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The journey to the wedding day may be a winding one. I’m happy to share some tips and tricks along the way. I continually offer ways to strengthen your relationship, and provide additional resources & tools. Scroll on down, and click on a post that interests you. The comments are always open, and I would love to know what you think!

How to Write Your Own Wedding Vows
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How to Write Your Own Wedding Vows

The expectation of writing memorable vows may scare some couples into abandoning the idea and going the “repeat after me” route. There is no need to get overwhelmed. You and your partner decided you want to write your own vows? Here are 6 tips to writing some meaningful vows to get you started.

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Gratituesday 2.23.21 - Just Vent, Just Listen
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Gratituesday 2.23.21 - Just Vent, Just Listen

This afternoon I had another no-show for an intro call with a colleague. So I called my mother because I just needed to vent. I am really trying to complain less, however we need to let our disappointments go. So it’s nice from time to time, to just share without an expectation of solving any problems. Just vent and let it go.

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Gratituesday 2.16.21 - Call to Action
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Gratituesday 2.16.21 - Call to Action

So, there’s a feral cat that’s been hanging in the courtyard behind my apartment building for the last few days SCREAMING! I’m not clear if it’s claiming its territory or calling for help. It’s a clear call to action. I just have no idea what the action should be.

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Guest Post: Consulting a Divorce Coach
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Guest Post: Consulting a Divorce Coach

I viscerally remember the moment I found out my husband was having an affair. I remember doubling over from the shock of it. And I remember shakily calling my parents and sharing the heartbreaking news with them: I had no idea how, but I was going to have to get a divorce.

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Vendors I Love: EMPANADAMN
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Vendors I Love: EMPANADAMN

I met Brent a few years ago. While he’s a quiet guy, his music speaks volumes. He tends to really take in the room and play the PERFECT song, at the perfect time. I’ve seen it at fashion shows, in Zoom meetings, and when people just need to get on the dance floor and let loose! I am beyond thrilled to shine a little light on Brent Fierro of EMPANADAMN.

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Vendors I Love: THREE NOTCH FLORALS
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Vendors I Love: THREE NOTCH FLORALS

I met Cara Schmidt at a Tuesdays Together meeting in January 2018. In fact, it was the first meeting for both us. During the networking time before the program began, we each spoke about our businesses, and I already felt my community expanding. I immediately appreciated Cara’s journey and passion for flowers. Without further ado, I’d love to introduce you to Cara from THREE NOTCH FLORALS!

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Wedding Ceremony: BLESSINGS and WISHES
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Wedding Ceremony: BLESSINGS and WISHES

Incorporating blessings or wishes into your wedding is a great way to personalize the ceremony and involve your friends and family. Here are some ways to include them in the ceremony or at the reception.

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Gratituesday 1.26.21 - Normalcy & Forgiveness
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Gratituesday 1.26.21 - Normalcy & Forgiveness

When the world started shutting down last March, there was a pause in a sense of normalcy. In November, I realized that I still needed to I update my driver’s license, however I could not get an appointment until today. Since I was headed down to the Penn Station area, I planned a day. A bit of normalcy.

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Zen Weddings: CREATE BOUNDARIES
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Zen Weddings: CREATE BOUNDARIES

Wedding planning is a period of heightened stress and potential overwhelm. Then you bring in desires, opinions and decision maker friends and family members and the stress level goes up. You want to have a Zen wedding? It actually all comes down to one single word: BOUNDARIES.

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Gratituesday 1.19.21 - A New Day
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Gratituesday 1.19.21 - A New Day

I really hate how divided we are, and I truly do not understand how anyone could have supported the current President. However, with the changing of the guard, I am optimistic. With Kamala Harris, we have lots of firsts. First woman, first Black and first South Asian VP. It does feel like a new day dawning.

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Gratituesday 1.12.21 - Accountability
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Gratituesday 1.12.21 - Accountability

Accountability has been on my mind recently. After the insurrection at the US Capitol last week, many politicians who supported the president or who let it happen just want everyone to move forward. They’re calling for unity. And I’m calling for accountability.

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Unconditional Support
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Unconditional Support

I had an a-ha moment last year when I realized that sometimes when I give there’s an expectation that I need to receive something. So, it got me thinking about unconditional support. Can I just give without the need to get back?

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Opening the Heart Chakra in Couples Yoga
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Opening the Heart Chakra in Couples Yoga

The heart chakra, or anahata, is one of the 7 chakras or energy centers that run up the central axis of the body. We practice heart openers in yoga as a gateway to our vulnerabilities. So grab a friend, your partner or your spouse and let’s get vulnerable together!

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How to Officiate a Friend’s Wedding
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How to Officiate a Friend’s Wedding

While officiating a friend's ceremony is a special honor, it can also be overwhelming. Here are some tips to get you started. I regularly offer Ceremony Consultation for “friend or family officiants”. So, I can offer assistance whenever you may need it.

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Gratituesday 12.29.20 - Farewell, 2020
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Gratituesday 12.29.20 - Farewell, 2020

I really wanted to say “Good Riddance, 2020. Don’t let the door hit you on the way out!” However, this amazingly challenging year, was a huge year for growth. Yes, there was a ton of really crappy things, but also lots of good, as well. And so I just say “Farewell, 2020.”

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