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The journey to the wedding day may be a winding one. I’m happy to share some tips and tricks along the way. I continually offer ways to strengthen your relationship, and provide additional resources & tools. Scroll on down, and click on a post that interests you. The comments are always open, and I would love to know what you think!
Premarital Counseling: Family Relationships
When you commit to each other or get married, you are meshing with your partner's family, as well. Navigating difficult personalities and past behavior can be challenging. It should also come as no surprise that, family relationships is one of the main causes of divorce.
Gratituesday 7.28.20 - How We Recover
I’ve been tired lately. It could be the summer heat, it could be my irregular sleeping habit or it could be something else. While I could complain about the shut down of the event industry, I am thankful for little work I do have, and the flexibility to take the time I need. I am able to nap in the middle of the day if I need to rest and recover.
5 Yoga Poses to Bring Calm on Your Wedding Day
It's important to take time on the morning of your wedding to calm the mind and center the body. This will allow you to release stress and better enjoy the day! Yoga is great for that. Here are 5 yoga poses that counter all of the wedding day jitters. All of them aim to release anxiety in the body and the mind. Feel free to do them by yourself, or grab your partner or some of your friends and do them together.
Vendors I Love: KRISTY MAY PHOTOGRAPHY
I met Kristy a few years ago at a wedding vendor networking event. Even though we’ve yet to work a wedding together, I really love Kristy’s work. She has an amazing eye. And whether shooting in black and white or vibrant color, she always captures the moment. I guess that’s what a background in photojournalism can do. Without further ado, I am so excited to share more from KRISTY MAY!
Where to Have Your Micro-wedding: Manhattan
In the time of COVID-19, couples are going small. Foregoing their large weddings, and opting for something intimate. Not always because they want to, but because they have to. As NYC begins to re-open and in-person weddings are possible, here are 3 venues in Manhattan currently offering small wedding packages -- City Winery, Gramercy Park Hotel & Tavern on the Green.
Gratituesday 7.14.20 - In Search of Fun
I really don’t have hobbies. The things that interested me became careers. So, as we’re stuck at home, it’s been a challenge for me to find fun. Yes, I’m fully aware this is a first world problem, but as we know all work and no play makes us pretty dull. So, I'd love your assistance with some ideas and inspiration. What do you do for fun?
How to Be a Zen Bride: BREATHE
Wedding planning is stressful to most engaged couples. You’ve never done anything like it before, and there is an expectation of perfection. Many couples split the duties of planning. However, sometimes I see the bride taking on more of the responsibilities based on skill set or desire. Therefore, additional stress usually falls on the bride. You want to know how to be a Zen Bride? BREATHE.
Vendors I Love: MAE B FILMS
A planner colleague offered virtual planning as soon as we started quarantine. I saw a videographer on the list of vendors she created that I didn’t know. I decided to reach out to Nikki and say hello. It was clear that she was a passionate filmmaker and that truly reflected in her work. Her short elopement and proposal films are like music videos and they made me smile. I can only imagine the pure joy the couples experience when they watch theirs for the first time. Without further ado, here’s Nikki Miller of Mae B Films!
GUEST POST: Marriage and Finances
Marriage usually means romance, not finances, right? Maybe not. After all, you already know your spouse-to-be has a million dollar smile, but will that charm extend to his or her finances and bills after marriage?
Why Practice Yoga Before Your Wedding
It’s such an honor to be part of a couple’s Big Day and one of my favorite ways start the morning is with a wedding yoga practice! I believe that your day is all about connecting – connecting to your future partner and your family and friends.
Gratituesday 6.23.20 - The New Normal
I can easily go a few days without leaving my apartment. With COVID-19, as we sheltered in place, we were forced to stay inside weeks if we didn’t need to leave. I am proud to say that I’ve finally entered the new normal. Automatically grabbing my mask, and heading out into the world without fear.
Where to Have Your Micro Wedding: Brooklyn
Micro (or mini) weddings are not new. Heck, I love a big wedding, but there’s something special about an intimate wedding ceremony as you celebrate your union. As NYC begins to re-open and in-person weddings are possible, here are three venues in Brooklyn offering smaller packages that certainly do not skimp on style!
Vendors I Love: THE VOW COLLECTIVE
I met Stacie at a Tuesday Together NYC meeting a few months ago. There was an immediate connection as we talked about the power of words and just how meaningful promises are. Usually I say farewell to my couples at their weddings. That’s when she says hello! I love her outlook on love and commitment, on partnership and longevity. Without further ado, here’s STACIE STINE of THE VOW COLLECTIVE.
Gratituesday 6.9.20 - Listening is Difficult
A quote from Seth Godin which begins, “Listening is difficult,” is very timely for a number of reasons. The white community failing to truly hear the struggles of the BIPOC communities. For many of us being tone-deaf to the situations around us – be it the pandemic or racial inequality. And for all the fear – of sharing experiences or failures.
4 Premarital Counseling Topics
Getting married is not only a rite of passage, but a truly exciting time in your relationship. You’re on a journey with the love of your life, let’s get you prepared for it! Of course there are situations or events that can only be handled when they happen. However, there are discussions you can have NOW to better prepare you for the future. Premarital counseling builds a really strong foundation to build your marriage.
Find Zen on Your Wedding Day
The wedding day is an exciting day. For most, it's many months (or years) in the making. There has been lots of planning and logistics, and that may come with nerves and anxiety. Here are some things you can do to find Zen and embrace calm on your wedding day!
What is Wedding Yoga?
Wedding planning and the actual wedding day itself can be stressful. The ancient practice of yoga is known for bringing calm and focus to the body and mind through breath and movement. Don't believe me?
Gratituesday 5.26.20 - Oh hello, racism...
Ways to Personalize Your Wedding Ceremony
Many couples these days are moving their ceremonies out of houses of worship. The exciting thing about having a secular ceremony is that there are no rules!
Gratituesday 5.19.20 - I'm Grateful. Are You?
Usually I fill this space with some new insight I want to share. An experience or a thought, a resource or a tip. But I have to say, I've got nothing! Or at least nothing is coming to mind. Tuesdays for me are all about reflecting and sharing the positive things in my life. So I am making a call to action to get you involved here. Truly.