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The journey to the wedding day may be a winding one. I’m happy to share some tips and tricks along the way. I continually offer ways to strengthen your relationship, and provide additional resources & tools. Scroll on down, and click on a post that interests you. The comments are always open, and I would love to know what you think!

Vendors I Love - THE HOOK CLUB
I met Dan on a wedding I did a few years ago. Thankfully our paths kept crossing at more joyful events. I appreciate his communication leading up to the wedding day, however they have so much skill and love for what they do. Without further ado, I’m happy to shine a little light on Dan Vernam from THE HOOK CLUB.

Vendors I Love - ERYC PEREZ DE TAGLE
I had the honor of working with Eryc at a recent wedding at The University Club. When I finally saw images from that day - wow! He captured the energy perfectly. Catching the important moments, but also the small and quiet ones. Super happy to shine a light on ERYC PEREZ DE TAGLE.

Vendors I Love: AGENCY 8
I worked with Lizzy on a recent wedding up at Wave Hill in Riverdale. Getting ready early in the day, and then taking hours of photos, dresses and suits are sometimes wrinkled and weary before the ceremony. However, Lizzy and her team took the time to refresh in a way that was so caring. Beyond excited to shine a little light on Lizzy Polden and Agency 8.

Choosing the Perfect Wedding Ceremony Music
As a wedding officiant, I write a wedding ceremonies. So, I certainly consider format and flow. But there’s another component that adds to the vibe to the ceremony. And that’s music. Here are some things to think about when considering your ceremony music.

The Power of Personalization: Why Writing Your Own Wedding Vows Is a Must
When I talk with couples about ways to make their ceremonies more personal, we talk about their likes and dislikes. Musical choices, a color palette and readings. However, one of the most heartfelt ways to personalize your wedding ceremony is by writing your own vows.

Vendors I Love: ELSIE GOODMAN PHOTOGRAPHY
I met Elsie working on a fun wedding out in Montauk. I loved her positivity and collaborative spirit. And then I was introduced to her work - and just WOW. Does this photographer know how to capture LOVE!

Vendors I Love: SERIF & SPICE
I met Giuliana at two recent events sponsored by the local the Rising Tide Society. After 2 and a half years of virtual events, it’s great to finally get back together in person. Giuliana doesn’t toot her own horn, so I’m going to do it for her. Introducing the passionate and talented Giuliana LaMantia of SERIF & SPICE.

Wedding Yoga: Reducing Stress and Nervousness Before Your Big Day
Your wedding day is a joyous occasion, but it's natural to feel a mix of excitement and nervousness leading up to the big day. Here are 5 ways yoga can help marriers reduce stress, manage nervousness, and embrace a serene state of mind before walking down the aisle.

Vendors I Love: SPN Events
I met Stan and his amazing musicians on a wedding last month. They warmed the rustic space and added a feeling of elegance. Without further ado, I’m beyond thrilled to shine a little light on Stanislav Nikolov and SPN Events.

Vendors I Love: LONG WEEKEND FLORALS
I met Ellen recently on a wonderful wedding in Brooklyn. Her work filled the rustic space and added such warmth. I also loved that once everything was set, she took a quiet moment to take it all in. Super excited to shine some light on Ellen Rothfuss of LONG WEEKEND FLORALS!

The Power of Ritual
As a person who writes and performs wedding ceremonies, I understand the power of ritual. However, I have been talking rituals more and more with my counseling couples. Small gestures incorporated into our daily lives. Why? Because rituals turn the ordinary into something meaningful.

Vendors I Love: MEGAN & KENNETH
I met Megan & Kenneth working a super fun wedding a few years ago. I appreciate their amazing sensibility to just be there to capture the right image at the right time. I guess it’s helpful that they not only love marriage, but ARE MARRIED. Without further ado, beyond excited to shine some light on MEGAN & KENNETH!

Vendors I Love: NON-TRADITIONAL WEDDING DJs
I met Ben at a super special wedding a few years ago. I really appreciate how Ben and his team view the musical elements of all parts of a wedding and how passionate they are. And they make it easy for couples to work with them. Without further ado, I’m excited to shine a light onto BEN BOYLAN from NON-TRADITIONAL WEDDING DJs!

Vendors I Love: SPEECHLESS MUSIC
Needless to say the musicians or the DJ are super important to the ceremony. We work together to create a vibe, so I was appreciative of Scott’s communication ahead of time, and then the ensemble’s beautiful work on the day. Super excited to shine a little light on SCOTT KULMAN and the musicians with SPEECHLESS MUSIC!

ZEN WEDDINGS: 5 Tips to Ease Wedding Stress
According to a recent survey, 40% of couples said wedding planning was “extremely stressful. And this is for a day that's supposed to be full of JOY. Well, I’d love to help you ease that wedding stress! Here are 5 things you can start doing TODAY, to be a Zen Bride or Zen Groom.

5 MORE Reasons to do Premarital Counseling
If you’re newly engaged I’m sure you’re looking at some timelines and an ever-growing list of wedding planning tasks. I encourage you to take a moment to consider adding premarital counseling to the top of the list. Here are five benefits to digging deep with your partner before you say “I do.”

Vendors I Love: MORTON STREET EVENTS
I met Anita working for another planner, and I loved her positivity and the way she organized all of the details. So of course, I was so excited when she decided to go out on her own. Without further ado, here’s my interview with Anita Pandian from MORTON STREET EVENTS!

Vendors I Love: DENISE FASANELLO FLOWERS
I recently worked on wedding I did with Denise. I walked into the ceremony area and literally said, “wow!” I’m thrilled to turn the spotlight on her and celebrate her journey. Without further ado, here’s my interview with Denise from DENISE FASANELLO FLOWERS!

Vendors I Love: DJ DAVID MEDINA
I met David this past season on a super fun wedding in Brooklyn. He just exudes a feeling of confidence and experience. I cannot wait to work with David again. Without further ado, I’m proud to introduce DJ DAVID MEDINA!

Vendors I Love: LOLI EVENTS
I met Rachel at an industry event years ago and immediately loved her energy. We finally got to work together this season, and I saw her in action. Rachel (and her team!) had a quiet confidence. They were like little ninjas - making sure that everything was in place and on schedule with little fanfare. I am beyond excited to share a little light on RACHEL URBAN from LOLI EVENTS.