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The journey to the wedding day may be a winding one. I’m happy to share some tips and tricks along the way. I continually offer ways to strengthen your relationship, and provide additional resources & tools. Scroll on down, and click on a post that interests you. The comments are always open, and I would love to know what you think!
The Power of Personalization: Why Writing Your Own Wedding Vows Is a Must
When I talk with couples about ways to make their ceremonies more personal, we talk about their likes and dislikes. Musical choices, a color palette and readings. However, one of the most heartfelt ways to personalize your wedding ceremony is by writing your own vows.
Vendors I Love: ELSIE GOODMAN PHOTOGRAPHY
I met Elsie working on a fun wedding out in Montauk. I loved her positivity and collaborative spirit. And then I was introduced to her work - and just WOW. Does this photographer know how to capture LOVE!
Vendors I Love: SERIF & SPICE
I met Giuliana at two recent events sponsored by the local the Rising Tide Society. After 2 and a half years of virtual events, it’s great to finally get back together in person. Giuliana doesn’t toot her own horn, so I’m going to do it for her. Introducing the passionate and talented Giuliana LaMantia of SERIF & SPICE.
Wedding Yoga: Reducing Stress and Nervousness Before Your Big Day
Your wedding day is a joyous occasion, but it's natural to feel a mix of excitement and nervousness leading up to the big day. Here are 5 ways yoga can help marriers reduce stress, manage nervousness, and embrace a serene state of mind before walking down the aisle.
Vendors I Love: SPN Events
I met Stan and his amazing musicians on a wedding last month. They warmed the rustic space and added a feeling of elegance. Without further ado, I’m beyond thrilled to shine a little light on Stanislav Nikolov and SPN Events.
Vendors I Love: LONG WEEKEND FLORALS
I met Ellen recently on a wonderful wedding in Brooklyn. Her work filled the rustic space and added such warmth. I also loved that once everything was set, she took a quiet moment to take it all in. Super excited to shine some light on Ellen Rothfuss of LONG WEEKEND FLORALS!
The Power of Ritual
As a person who writes and performs wedding ceremonies, I understand the power of ritual. However, I have been talking rituals more and more with my counseling couples. Small gestures incorporated into our daily lives. Why? Because rituals turn the ordinary into something meaningful.
Vendors I Love: MEGAN & KENNETH
I met Megan & Kenneth working a super fun wedding a few years ago. I appreciate their amazing sensibility to just be there to capture the right image at the right time. I guess it’s helpful that they not only love marriage, but ARE MARRIED. Without further ado, beyond excited to shine some light on MEGAN & KENNETH!
Vendors I Love: NON-TRADITIONAL WEDDING DJs
I met Ben at a super special wedding a few years ago. I really appreciate how Ben and his team view the musical elements of all parts of a wedding and how passionate they are. And they make it easy for couples to work with them. Without further ado, I’m excited to shine a light onto BEN BOYLAN from NON-TRADITIONAL WEDDING DJs!
Vendors I Love: SPEECHLESS MUSIC
Needless to say the musicians or the DJ are super important to the ceremony. We work together to create a vibe, so I was appreciative of Scott’s communication ahead of time, and then the ensemble’s beautiful work on the day. Super excited to shine a little light on SCOTT KULMAN and the musicians with SPEECHLESS MUSIC!
ZEN WEDDINGS: 5 Tips to Ease Wedding Stress
According to a recent survey, 40% of couples said wedding planning was “extremely stressful. And this is for a day that's supposed to be full of JOY. Well, I’d love to help you ease that wedding stress! Here are 5 things you can start doing TODAY, to be a Zen Bride or Zen Groom.
5 MORE Reasons to do Premarital Counseling
If you’re newly engaged I’m sure you’re looking at some timelines and an ever-growing list of wedding planning tasks. I encourage you to take a moment to consider adding premarital counseling to the top of the list. Here are five benefits to digging deep with your partner before you say “I do.”
Vendors I Love: MORTON STREET EVENTS
I met Anita working for another planner, and I loved her positivity and the way she organized all of the details. So of course, I was so excited when she decided to go out on her own. Without further ado, here’s my interview with Anita Pandian from MORTON STREET EVENTS!
Vendors I Love: DENISE FASANELLO FLOWERS
I recently worked on wedding I did with Denise. I walked into the ceremony area and literally said, “wow!” I’m thrilled to turn the spotlight on her and celebrate her journey. Without further ado, here’s my interview with Denise from DENISE FASANELLO FLOWERS!
Vendors I Love: DJ DAVID MEDINA
I met David this past season on a super fun wedding in Brooklyn. He just exudes a feeling of confidence and experience. I cannot wait to work with David again. Without further ado, I’m proud to introduce DJ DAVID MEDINA!
Vendors I Love: LOLI EVENTS
I met Rachel at an industry event years ago and immediately loved her energy. We finally got to work together this season, and I saw her in action. Rachel (and her team!) had a quiet confidence. They were like little ninjas - making sure that everything was in place and on schedule with little fanfare. I am beyond excited to share a little light on RACHEL URBAN from LOLI EVENTS.
Premarital Counseling: 25 Questions for You and Your Partner
As you consider marriage with your partner, there may be lots of questions that come up. However, as a premarital counselor, I find that some couples do not know how to begin. Here's a list of 25 questions that I encourage you to discuss together. Is it everything you need to discuss? Heck, no. But it’s a start.
Wedding Affirmations to Keep You Calm
I hear over and over again from brides and grooms that wedding planning can be stressful or overwhelming. Using affirmations is certainly one way to counterbalance that negativity and remind yourselves what the heck you are doing it all for.
Wedding Yoga: THE CROWN CHAKRA
The crown chakra is considered to be the top of the chakra ladder. It connects you to the universe in the same way that the root chakra connects you to the Earth. Located at the top of the head, the crown chakra gives us access to higher states of consciousness as we open ourselves to what is beyond our personal preoccupations and visions. While most of the chakras are very physical, this one is super spiritual and ethereal.
8 Important Things to Remember Before Your Wedding Ceremony
While a lot of thought and planning goes into the wedding reception, the wedding ceremony is usually the first thing on your timeline. To make sure it all runs smoothly, don’t forget these 8 things as you plan your wedding ceremony.