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The journey to the wedding day may be a winding one. I’m happy to share some tips and tricks along the way. I continually offer ways to strengthen your relationship, and provide additional resources & tools. Scroll on down, and click on a post that interests you. The comments are always open, and I would love to know what you think!
Premarital Counseling: 25 Questions for You and Your Partner
As you consider marriage with your partner, there may be lots of questions that come up. However, as a premarital counselor, I find that some couples do not know how to begin. Here's a list of 25 questions that I encourage you to discuss together. Is it everything you need to discuss? Heck, no. But it’s a start.
Wedding Affirmations to Keep You Calm
I hear over and over again from brides and grooms that wedding planning can be stressful or overwhelming. Using affirmations is certainly one way to counterbalance that negativity and remind yourselves what the heck you are doing it all for.
Wedding Yoga: THE CROWN CHAKRA
The crown chakra is considered to be the top of the chakra ladder. It connects you to the universe in the same way that the root chakra connects you to the Earth. Located at the top of the head, the crown chakra gives us access to higher states of consciousness as we open ourselves to what is beyond our personal preoccupations and visions. While most of the chakras are very physical, this one is super spiritual and ethereal.
8 Important Things to Remember Before Your Wedding Ceremony
While a lot of thought and planning goes into the wedding reception, the wedding ceremony is usually the first thing on your timeline. To make sure it all runs smoothly, don’t forget these 8 things as you plan your wedding ceremony.
Vendors I Love: BRI JOHNSON WEDDINGS
I met Bri a few months ago when one of her couples traveling from Germany was looking for an officiant. Bri was just so warm and thoughtful. She guided the couple and made them feel comfortable and special. Without further ado, I’m beyond excited to shine a little light onto BRI JOHNSON!
Vendors I Love: PETALS BY DANI
I met Dani attending a few WIPA meetings in New York. She was always so welcoming and friendly. However, once I started following her on Instagram, I saw how amazing talented she is. Dani’s strong sense of color and design were apparent in all of her work. Without further ado, I am excited to give some well-deserved attention to Dani Chou of PETALS BY DANI!
Vendors I Love: ARCH EVENTS
I met Monica as we talked about an upcoming fall wedding. As I got to know her, and saw the way she and Allyson worked, I knew that we shared similar thoughts about what we value in weddings. Without further ado, I’m so excited to shine a little light on Monica O’Connor and Allyson Horn of ARCH EVENTS!
Finding Calm Before You Walk Down the Aisle
You can be the calmest groom or bride, but as soon as you’re ready to walk down the aisle, there's a good chance that your nerves will start to take over. You can release the anxiety and start your walk with confidence by using some of these quick tips.
Vendors I Love: Lauren of THE GET TOGETHER EVENTS CO.
I first met Lauren a few years ago at The Love Union. I always appreciated her genuine quality and my gosh, is she FUN! Not only that, she’s really passionate about what she does, and I love that she continues to grow! Without further ado, I am so excited to shine some very well deserved light onto Lauren Schaefer from THE GET TOGETHER EVENTS CO.
Vendors I Love: PLUME and FLOURISH
I first met Caroline at the Whitney Museum. We worked on events together, but I had no idea that she was so talented in calligraphy. I saw her place cards first hand, and then I just started stalking on social media. Without further ado, let’s shine some well deserved light onto Caroline David from PLUME & FLOURISH!
Vendors I Love: JOSIE MICHELLE EVENTS
I met Michelle Peralta at an industry event in 2019. I love that she and her team are not only super calm and organized, but they are all about supporting others and are total team players. Without further ado, I am so excited to shine some very well deserved attention onto JOSIE MICHELLE EVENTS.
How to be a Zen Bride or Groom
The wedding planning process may be an emotional rollercoaster. Therefore it’s even more important to be a Zen Bride or Groom. Finding calm to better handle the ups and down you may experience. Here’s now you can become the queen or king of calm in five easy steps.
Why Hire a Professional Officiant?
Ask any wedding planner, photographer, or DJ whether they prefer to work with a family friend or a professional officiant and they will tell you the same thing: definitely hire a professional.
Here’s why.
Vendors I Love: JASON MITCHELL KAHN
I met Jason a few years ago working on a micro wedding at Wythe Hotel. As great planners do, he kept all the plates spinning in the air, as he moved gracefully between the couple, the hotel staff and the guests. Without further ado, I’d love to shine a big ol’ spotlight on JASON MITCHELL KAHN!
Vendors I Love: DJ MARCUS HO
I met Marcus working on a wedding in Brooklyn a few months ago. I really appreciated his energy and his willingness to collaborate. And his selections for cocktail hour were certainly on point! Without further ado, I’m so excited to shine a little light onto MARCUS HO!
How to be a Zen Bride: PLAN FOR THE FUTURE
Are you ready for the day AFTER your wedding? The wedding is special, but it's only one day. Marriage is hopefully for life. So I invite you to take a pause from planning to prepare for your marriage. I promise that if you know what’s important to you both and feel empowered as a team, you will find Zen and ease as you plan your Big Day.
Wedding Yoga: THE SACRAL CHAKRA
I refer to the chakras regularly in my yoga classes. In fact, they are the foundation of my wedding yoga practice. Yes, they can be a little ‘out there,’ but I have seen some a-ha moments using them with even some of my premarital counseling couples. Today I’m talking about the second chakra - Svadhisthana.
Vendors I Love: DANCE TOGETHER NYC
After a lovely conversation with Simone, we realized that there are so many similarities in what we do even if the medium is different. I am super excited to shine a light on dance teacher extraordinaire, SIMONE ASSBOECK of DANCE TOGETHER NYC.
You’re Engaged! Now what?
Your partner asked a very important question - and you said YES! Once the initial excitement wears off, and you’ve dabbed your tears of joy, it may be unclear what to do next. I guide couples from the “Yes” to the “I Do,” so I suggest you get on the same page with your partner as you prepare for marriage!
Vendors I Love: JUSTIN McCALLUM PHOTOGRAPHY
I worked with Justin on a wedding in 2018. Over the years I have come to adore the authentic joy he brings to his work. I also appreciate his thoughts on making the wedding day and the planning leading up to the Big Day as stress-free as possible. Without further ado, I’d love to shine a mighty bright light onto Justin McCallum!